A mother -in -law who accumulates the bride vs. that wants to be discarded ... How to discard while living with a mother -in -law with different values?

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Many people will have more home time than before, and have reviewed interiors and home appliances for comfort and have cleaned them up. [See photos of this article] Life with a mother -in -law living together is painful ... Solved by discarding! "I guess there were so many things ..." -When you start cleaning up, you may be at a loss. You just have to "do not accumulate", but not everyone is good at cleaning up. However, there is a longing for a neat and neat room. Then, what should I do? The "Discarded Dojo in which things, people, and mental problems disappear" is a book where "the first person of discarding" will answer various concerns about cleaning up. This time, we will introduce advice to those who are suffering from "the mother -in -law who tends to accumulate things".

How to discard while living with my mother -in -law?

I live with my husband's mother, but I'm worried that my way of thinking and hobbies is completely different.Even if you have been discarded and have a comfortable space, you will be motivated by placing things without consultation.There are a lot of tableware I want to dispose of, but none of them can be disposed of because of their mother -in -law.How can I proceed with this situation?

Eternal theme "mother -in -law problem"

I have a painful feeling because I have the experience of how breathless living with my mother -in -law with different values. The mother -in -law VS bride is an eternal theme, but this time is a fight between the mother -in -law of "Tamekomien", which accumulates things, and the "Dancharian" who works hard to cut it off. However, the living space is limited and time is flowing at the same time. Therefore, it can be said that the task this time is "territory battle in living space" and "sovereignty in living time". Therefore, events that make you irritated, such as "putting things without consultation" and "accumulating dishes you want to dispose of" are only a problem on the surface. Even if you count such actions, there is no drill, and your consumption will continue endlessly. That said, there is nothing more empty than the advice of saying, "Don't worry about your mother -in -law's actions." Because it's like saying, "Give up." That's why you'll drive you into desperate feelings. Actually, when I was living with my mother -in -law, my mother at home told me, "The other person is the old man. Please be patient because you die first." I have a very miserable and poor experience. I wasn't as depressed at that time. So I don't want you to taste the same feeling as me at that time. So I think like this. You need to listen more and more to the true feelings at the bottom of your heart.

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